The real reason you’re still single.
Dating can be a lot of fun for many women, but when you’re ready to learn how to find your soulmate and fall in love, meeting guy after guy doesn’t have quiet the same appeal.
If you’ve been looking for true love and not having any luck, there are some deep questions to ask yourself that can help you evaluate what you want in a soul-connected relationship with ‘the one’ — and why you haven’t found him yet
As author, speaker and New Age thought leader, Deepak Chopra, says, “The more you know yourself, the more you can manifest,” which is why looking inward is the first step toward manifesting your soulmate.
These 5 deep questions to ask yourself will reveal how to find your soulmate and why you haven’t met him … yet.
1. Do you even want to find your soulmate relationship right now?
Are you seeking a relationship because it’s truly what you desire or because it’s what society says you should have? Do you feel left out because your friends are all married and having children and you’re still alone? Are you still recovering from a breakup?
Or, are you really enjoying your freedom and having a blast meeting and dating different people?
It’s important to be clear about what you truly desire, matter what you are desiring when it comes to having a relationship.
Knowing what you truly want allows you to communicate that when you’re meeting new people or dating online. Just make sure to honor what it is you want, especially if you want to find your soulmate.
2. Do you judge yourself?
When you judge someone, you are not loving them. The opposite of love is not hate; it is judgment. Hatred comes from judgment. You can’t love someone and judge them at the same time — and this goes for how you view yourself, too.
How much judgment do you have about yourself and men? Do you have any judgments about your body or looks? Your job? Your level of intelligence? What about any judgments about the kind of wife you’ll be? Do you judge yourself for not having found your soulmate yet? Write them all down.