When you’re on your journey to meeting your soulmate, it can feel like forever until you come together. 

If you’re like many of my clients, you may be wondering “Where is he already?” or “Why can’t I find him?”

Some even question what they’re doing wrong that’s keeping them apart from their beloved.

I’m here to tell you that it is going to happen! It is a guarantee that you and your soulmate will be together. I know that, but do you?

One of the reasons that you may not have allowed your soulmate relationship in yet is because you may still need some convincing when it comes to getting to have the man of your dreams.

But you have to know that he’s on his way.

You have to believe it with every fiber of your being.

Doubting it or worrying about whether it will ever happen for you is definitely going to keep you apart. You need to be open to allowing him in by not resisting your desires with fear, doubt, or worry.

The universal law of allowing states that you must let go of any resistance to what you want. Resistance can be judgment, resentment, blame, jealousy, guilt, stress, disappointment, fear, anger, or doubt.

Instead, focus on the amazing relationship that is on it’s way to you now.

Here are 5 steps that you can take to receive the soulmate relationship you desire.

Living Vision

1. Write a Living Vision about You and Your Soulmate

A living vision is a detailed description of your relationship with your soulmate as if it’s already in existence. Write it in the first person, present tense.

Use descriptive language and show your enthusiasm through your word choice. Be as specific as you can.

Make sure to include both of you in it. Don’t worry too much about any of his physical attributes.

Focus mainly on how you’re going to feel when you’re together and what you’ll be experiencing when you’re together.

Read it at least once a day, either when you first wake up or before you go to sleep.

Affirmation2. Affirm Your Soulmate is Coming

After you’ve completed your Living Vision, write 2-3 positive affirmations that align to your affirmation. Start each affirmation with “I am…” and then fill in the blank.

Make sure that each affirmation is what you do want, not what you don’t want.

For example, do say something like “I am attracting the man of my dreams, my soulmate and partner for life” versus “I am no longer attracting unavailable men.”

Always focus on the positive.

I highly recommend writing them on post-its and putting them around your house, in your car, and any other places that you spend a lot of time.

Vision Board3. Create a Soulmate Vision Board

Science has proven that our brains cannot distinguish between reality and fantasy. So, it’s very important to have visuals that help the brain to align with the reality that you are creating.

If you’re not familiar with what a vision board is, it is a physical representation of your heartfelt dreams, using images and words.

Many people create them on a poster board and hang them somewhere that they will see them on a daily basis.

Again, be specific.

Everything that’s on your vision board should activate feelings of joy and anticipation for what’s to come.

Woman meditating

4. Heart to Heart, Soul to Soul Meditation with Your Soulmate

Sit some place quiet in a comfortable position. Place one hand on your heart and one hand on your belly.

In the silence of your mind, call forward your beloved to meet you to connect heart to heart, soul to soul.

I recommend doing this for at least 10 minutes in the morning. But, do whatever you can whenever you can to make that connection.

Feel the immense love and energy in every cell of your being.

Listen to my Soulmate Soul Call Guided Meditation here:


Woman journaling5. Journal to Your Soulmate

There are 2 approaches you can take to this.

Either you can write your soulmate a letter, sharing anything you want them to know about how much you love them or why you love them.

Or, you can write entries that are descriptions of the day you had together.

Either way, it’s another powerful way to connect with his energy.

If you make these steps part of your daily routine, you will begin to witness major shifts in your thoughts/outlook. And, in the midst of all of this, make sure to stay grounded in the knowing that you two are coming together for sure. It is and will be done!

Getting your heart and mind ready for your soulmate relationship is one of the gifts of “singlehood.”

While you’re calling in your beloved, you can do the precious work on your own heart to make sure that they next relationship you get into is better than the last one.

You are capable of great love.

But to get it, you have to BE it.

If you’re ready to put into practice the skills for receiving your soulmate, but find it a little challenging to do on your own, I can help. Schedule a free session with me here to explore how we can work on bringing love to your life as soon as your heart is ready.

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